I've been thinking a lot about character lately. When people consider potential "significant others," they always talk about personality, what kind of music the person listens to and other things just as inconsiquential. I myself have been one of these people. But recently I've been realizing the value of character. Character is something that reveals the core of a person, and is what will ultimately endure when bands break up and that cunning wit cuts a little too deep.
Jane Austen talks much of character in her books. In "Persuasion" what is percieved to be weakness of character nearly keeps Anne and Captain Wentworth from being together. In "Pride and Predjudice" Darcy's original folly's are forgotten after he shows depth of character. Emma chooses character over personality in the novel by the same name. And the list goes on. Why is it that so much weight is put on strength of character? I think it is because of what character reveals. Personalites can be fun, and it's nice to like the same things, but those are not enduring. It is when you dig into someone's heart, see where their passions and actions lie, that you see that person for who they really are. While I'm not completely discounting the compatability of personalities and what-not, I think good old Jane was onto something in her recurring theme of character. I'd much rather be with someone who brings joy to my life, challenges me and carries the qualities of faithfulness, patience and forgiveness. I think if someone has a solid foundation in who they are, the other things will fall into place.
Thinking about this also challenges me to develop my own character, and work on forming my own solid foundation. The other day I read Galatians, and was once again struck by the fruit of the Spirit. Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Looks like Jane Austen wasn't the only one encouraging the importance of these things. And did you notice that it's "fruit of the Spirit" not "fruits"? All of these characteristics go together. A package deal, not al-a-carte. That's a challenge, but I think I'm up to it. I want to know who I am in Christ and let that show in all my words and actions. It's not easy, but I'm also not doing it alone.
"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
This is one to think about. Thank you for these inspiring thoughts, Amy!
ReplyDeleteAnd by the way, all of your blogs have pushed me to consider reading Jane Austen again. I have tried to read the book Emma three times now, and could never get into it. But I think I'll try again, thanks :)
You are so deep, my dear. :) What great thoughts. And I liked that you were able to tackle the same topic using both Jane Austen and Jesus... I see some serious talent. :)
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